As a webmaster, I could offer some technical advice, but as a multilingual reader and published writer, I feel I must give you a more important bit of criticism: You need someone with more experience and competence to write your text content in English. Your actual intent is difficult to interpret, as you employ strange and inappropriate word choices to reach your audience, and English readers shouldn’t have to feel the need to translate the English that they are reading.
Don’t get me wrong: Your English is good, better than a lot of Americans’ I’ve read and listened to, Americans who, by the way, speak only one language, and very poorly at that…but, I found it very difficult to discern what you are actually attempting to communicate in your blog.
…and I fail to see how max_yash’s porno link is at all germane, so feel free to ignore it, as I seriously doubt it would interest you or serve your purposes.
If you’d be interested, I might be willing to consult with you personally on this matter. My interest is not pecuniary, or motivated by avarice—but, I could help you step up your game with the text of your content; we can worry about the layout and links later. It’s the message that you have to deliver that’s of the greatest importance, not cosmetics. You can worry about presentation later, after you have the words down pat.
Blogging is rather akin to public speaking: Not everyone is a natural, and there are ways to get around weaknesses and liabilities, methods to manipulate your audience. Please! Everyone speaking publicly to an audience effectively manipulates it to varying degrees. The question is: Do you wish to accomplish your goal or not? It’s up to you.